{"id":75931,"date":"2012-07-23T11:13:08","date_gmt":"2012-07-23T16:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/?p=75931"},"modified":"2012-07-23T11:14:44","modified_gmt":"2012-07-23T16:14:44","slug":"i-dont-eat-that-four-words-that-may-help-you-lose-weight","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/07\/i-dont-eat-that-four-words-that-may-help-you-lose-weight\/","title":{"rendered":"I Don&#8217;t Eat That: Four Words That May Help You Lose Weight"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"woman\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/07\/i-dont-eat-that-four-words-that-may-help-you-lose-weight\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-75959\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Women-Saying-No-226x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"226\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Women-Saying-No-226x300.jpg 226w, https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/Women-Saying-No.jpg 301w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px\" \/><\/a>In a recent study found in Health Magazine, Vanessa Patrick, PhD associate professor of marketing at the University of Houston found that 80% of women who\u00a0used the words, &#8220;I don&#8217;t eat that,&#8221; were able to hold to their good eating habits. On the other hand, only 10% of women who\u00a0used the similar\u00a0phrase, &#8220;I can&#8217;t eat that&#8221; stuck to their good eating habits.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Saying &#8216;I can&#8217;t&#8217; signals that you&#8217;re giving\u00a0up something\u00a0desirable, but saying &#8216;I don&#8217;t&#8217; gives you a sense of empowerment,&#8221; said Patrick.<\/p>\n<p>After reading this piece I couldn&#8217;t agree more. A couple years ago, when I was a sophomore in college, I had the pressure\u00a0to look my best\u00a0in my little-material cheerleading uniform while knowing I had gained about\u00a010 pounds since making the squad. I\u00a0used to look at the greasy box of fries my friends were eating and sadly say, &#8220;I can&#8217;t eat that.&#8221; What I didn&#8217;t realize was I was making it 10x harder on myself. <strong><a title=\"waist size vs weight\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/01\/measure-waist-size-not-weight-for-better-health\/\">Losing a few inches on my mid section<\/a><\/strong> was a huge goal of mine, but I was going about it the completely wrong way. Saying &#8220;I can&#8217;t eat that&#8221; felt like a slap in the face each time I said it, and it reminded me of the negative consequences and\u00a0embarrassment\u00a0I was facing.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Once I\u00a0truly\u00a0decided to make a serious\u00a0change, both physically and mentally, I knew I was going to have to pour everything I had into it. I <strong><a title=\"The Risky Business of Lifestyle Changes\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/09\/the-risky-business-of-lifestyle-changes\/\">changed my eating lifestyle<\/a><\/strong> for the better,\u00a0developed\u00a0a <strong><a title=\"attitude and weight loss\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/07\/starting-over-with-weight-loss-requires-a-positive-attitude-and-accountability\/\">positive attitude<\/a><\/strong> about working out,\u00a0and\u00a0unconsciously\u00a0started\u00a0using the phrase, &#8220;I don&#8217;t eat that.&#8221; While many of my friends in their early 20&#8217;s can get away with eating donuts and cheeseburgers, I know and now accept that my body&#8217;s different and I\u00a0just\u00a0simply can&#8217;t eat those foods if I want to have the physique that I desire&#8230;So I don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I asked DIR&#8217;s registered dietitian <strong><a title=\"Mary Hartley\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/authors\/mary\/\">Mary Hartley<\/a><\/strong> what she thought about this interesting concept. Mary\u00a0says, &#8220;People who follow structured diets surrender their personal power to the rules of the diet. They know what they are supposed to do so they say &#8216;I can\u2019t.&#8217; Non-dieters who play by a personal set of rules believe they control their own decisions and behaviors. There is\u00a0no external authority saying they &#8216;can\u2019t.&#8217; They personally elect to either &#8216;do&#8217; or &#8216;do not.&#8217; This mindset broadens their boundaries, and so they are not likely to say, &#8216;What the hell?&#8217; and throw in the towel (i.e. &#8216;surrender&#8217; to their cravings).&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So the next time your friend offers you a delicious treat you know your body won&#8217;t appreciate in the aftermath, try saying, &#8220;No thanks, I don&#8217;t eat that.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Also Read:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"How to Healthfully Handle Food Cravings\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/09\/how-to-healthfully-handle-food-cravings\/\">How to Healthfully Handle Food Cravings<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"Chris Powell's STAX Nutrition Lifestyle System\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diets\/chris-powells-stax-nutrition-lifestyle-system\/\">Chris Powell&#8217;s STAX Nutrition Lifestyle System<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"cheat on diet\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/07\/the-worst-time-to-cheat-on-your-diet\/\">The Worst Time to Cheat on Your Diet<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a recent study found in Health Magazine, Vanessa Patrick, PhD associate professor of marketing at the University of Houston found that 80% of women who\u00a0used the words, &#8220;I don&#8217;t eat that,&#8221; were able to hold to their good eating &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/07\/i-dont-eat-that-four-words-that-may-help-you-lose-weight\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3695,58],"tags":[469,3,6092,37],"class_list":["post-75931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-diet-and-nutrition","category-womens-health","tag-cravings","tag-diet-tips","tag-health-magazine","tag-mental-health"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75931"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":75972,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75931\/revisions\/75972"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dietsinreview.com\/diet_column\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}